Are you the type of person you want in your life?
Have you ever wondered why the same types of people seem to be the only ones attracted to you? Or felt as if you can’t seem to get out of a situation, no matter how bad you want to.
Have you ever found yourself asking, “why me“?
I’ve asked myself “why me” plenty of times. All that did was keep me in a negative headspace. I kept dwelling on the why, instead of applying action to my wants.
Not realizing I was attracting more misery by dwelling on the “why”.
This is where the laws of attraction come to surface. You are what you attract. The laws of attraction respond both negatively and positively. It’s the energy around us. It starts with our thoughts and manifests into our reality.
You can attract negative people and moods just by dwelling on the bad. Why do you think misery loves company?
If you want to attract happiness and peace. You have to give out happiness and peace to the world. That means cutting out negative talk. That means instead of waking up asking “why me“. Start realizing how blessed you are to even wake up. This means choosing to be happy.
Remember, happiness isn’t a place. It’s a feeling.
By doing this you’re allowing peace and fulfillment to enter your life in return.
My 365 days of Gratitude is the ultimate example of receiving what you put out. I needed a more positive mindset, I dwelled on the negative way too much. I also needed clarity on what really is important.
My gratitude attracted like-minded people. I had long lost friendships resurface. New bonds formed. I even found a mentorship that focuses on finding clarity in every aspect of my life. Which also has given me connections to more influential women.
No longer was there room for negativity or confusion. There were too many positive influences distracting me from it.
I manifested that.
Now ladies listen up!
Laws of attraction work the same with dating! You can not scream, “fuck guys, they are all the same” while trying to become someone’s wife! Or complain over and over about how “men ain’t sh*t”. These feelings will not connect to the attraction you desire. Instead, you will end up with those immature men you have been complaining about over and over again.
The men in your life are a reflection of you, sis.
You’re not going to get a good man while dissing all men.
And you’re definitely not going to get a good man with a negative attitude or an unclear mind. Like attracts like, always remember that.
You get what you put out. If you want a healed, loving, and stable man. You need to be a healed, loving and stable woman. Your energy will handle it for you.
I like to believe my energy keeps the men that do not have the same intentions as me, out of my life. Or it’s because I’m a tad intimidating.
Either way, the energy I put out keeps the ones that aren’t for me. Away from me.
Nothing in life is free. To get what you want to receive. You have to put action behind it. You have to fight your negative demons. You have to break unhealthy habits. Sometimes this even requires you to change.
I’m not afraid to admit I had to change, completely. The way I thought, the way I treated people, and the way I saw myself. There’s nothing wrong with change. Sometimes it’s required to get to where you want to be in life.
The laws of attraction work by asking, believing, and receiving. A dream without action is just that, a dream. If you’re tired of feeling sorry for yourself. Put those thoughts into actions. Become what you want to attract.