Have fun together, right now isn’t the time to fight with each other.
Whether you’re living together or forced to social distance yourself from bae. Quarantine life is taking a toll on all relationships. Maybe your lucky and being quarantined with bae is making the relationship stronger, appreciate that sis. Or it could be doing the exact opposite, are you finally realizing he’s not the one?
Having nowhere to go can start to make any relationship a little boring. You can’t go out to eat, out for a hike, or meet up with friends.
I’m already losing my mind just thinking about it.
Right now is the time that a little creativity can go a long way. It could help prevent your relationship from reaching that boring phrase, and make it into everything you ever wanted.
If bae lives with you
1. Working remotely? Work in different spaces. Create space and distance between each other. It’s good to miss each other even if you’re just in separate rooms. Being on top of each other all day everyday will start to get frustrating no matter how much you love a person.
Everyone needs space.
2. Cook together. Cooking together is a great activity that you can learn from each other. Make it a game and compete against each other. Who can make the best dish? Winner gets anything they want for an hour or two. Try cooking naked together if you want to get real spicy, he might not be able to keep his hands off of you, but I’m sure you won’t complain about it. Cooking together is a physical love language so it could turn you both on.
3. Do arts and craft together. Make something for each other or your family. Doing an arts and craft project will help you see what your partner is into, what colors they like and what they see as beautiful. This is a good way to reconnect with each other. Get a glass of wine and play some R&B in the background to set the mood.
Paint each other – all you need is a few trash bags and washable paint.
Paint pictures for your place.
Get all of your pictures together and make a college.
Make a collage for your family and send it to them.
Make a bunch of masks! Save some for yourselves and donate some if you made extra.
3. Play a game together. Who doesn’t love games? You can play board game, cards, games on your phone, Tik Tok, Twister, or even sexual card games. Check out Spencer and Amazon for the erotic adult games. The games can be anything from, would you ever? To relationship related questions built to help you and your partner gain more insight on each other. I personally love the erotic adult games.
4. Plan a sit down talk once a week to check on each other’s mental health. Just because your home all day together doesn’t mean you’re truly speaking about what’s on your mind. The conversation can be about anything from society, family, dreams, and goals. Whatever is on your mind, you can say it. Create a comfortable environment where you both can express your feelings to each other without judgement or anger. Help build each other up. When you feed into someone’s mind the sexual desire heightens, it’s a comfort feeling.
This should be a priority.
5. Get pretty for your man on a certain days of the week. Maybe every Friday or Saturday. Remind him and yourself who you are. Just because you’re indoors doesn’t mean you can’t get dressed up. Keep him on his toes.
When you look good, you feel good and you treat people better.
6. Dedicate a day where you cater to each other. This means on your day your partner has to cater to your every need. This means cooking, massages, watching whatever you want, and doing whatever you want. It’s all about that person. Make each other feel good. When you love someone you want them to always smile, right?
For social distancing bae’s
1. Schedule date nights via Facetime. Pick a time and day. One of you pay for delivery to both of your places, to make it a real date. Then both of you watch a few movies at the same time with some wine. This is fun because you can pause it for commentary.
2. Workout together via Facetime. Do a cardio or yoga video together. You’ll be able to push each other more. You can even meditate together. If you want your spirits to connect on a deeper level.
3. Play virtual games together. Games like words with friends, scramble, tik tok toe, Sims, Animal Crossings are a few. Playing games reminds you that you can still have fun together.
4. Facetime! I personally hate Facetime,but right now it’s the only way we can feel close to each other without being close. Make sure you’re Facetiming at least twice a day. Communication is crucial right now. If you aren’t answering Facetime calls during quarantine something ain’t right.
5. Have virtual parties. It doesn’t have to be always just you two staring at each other. Invite your friends! Adding more people will keep conversations going. You could even play matchmaker with your single friends or just have a couples brunch!
Get creative during quarantine. Don’t allow your relationship to get lazy just because you’re feeling lazy. Having fun in your relationship will help you find the fun in quarantine.
xox Black Daria